Online dating has grown in popularity over the years and it is without a doubt here to stay. According to PewResearch, [1] exposure to online dating has skyrocketed since 2005. Nowadays, nearly half of Americans know at least someone who uses online dating or who has found a partner that way.
Moreover, the use of dating sites and apps has grown significantly among Americans of all ages, according to research from EHarmony.com, [2] so it’s never been easier to find a date no matter your age or preferences. So if you’re interested in finding a partner online, download a few apps to your phone and take a look at our tips for online dating.
Try to Make a Good First Impression
First impressions make the difference between being ignored and getting a message back. That’s why you want to take some time to fill out your profile page carefully. Think about how you want to present yourself, but we suggest that you be honest and make sure you’re profile is an interesting read. That said, don’t hold back if you have adventures or specific hobbies to share, especially if you’re looking for a long-term partner.
Add a Photo to Your Profile
Yes, you might not look like Brad Pitt or a supermodel, but adding a photo of yourself to your profile is always recommended. Other users will focus on profiles with a nice assortment of full-body photos and close-ups while skipping those without any or with poor photos. Moreover, if you have pictures that show off your hobbies or personality, by all means, add them. One thing you should avoid is only adding group photos. If you have to include them, make sure you also have ones where you’re by yourself to avoid any possible confusion.
Be Honest, Be Yourself
Take advantage of the relative anonymity afforded to you by the internet and just be yourself. We’re sometimes limited by our workplaces and other circumstances that prevent us from really expressing who we are. Share what you like and believe in, and send a message to the person you would never have the courage to approach in a crowded bar, on the street, or at a concert, for example.
Don’t Be Creepy
What you want to avoid by all means is being a creep both online and in real life. Yes, you can be anonymous on the internet and get away with saying a lot of things, but don’t let that embolden you into saying something you’re going to regret. Likewise, it’s always wise to report someone if they make you feel uncomfortable or start to harass you in any way, even if it’s only online.
Arrange a Date in Public First
If you’ve been lucky, you will have found someone interesting that you talked to for a while. So, if you’re ready to take the next step and meet this person face to face, we suggest a public place like a coffee shop. By doing so, you’ll be safe and there will be less pressure on both of you. If the date doesn’t go well, you’ll have spent only ten to fifteen minutes talking over coffee.
[1] https://www.eharmony.com/online-dating-statistics/
[2] https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2016/02/29/5-facts-about-online-dating/